Our First Milestone

Ever wonder why people celebrate birthdays or anniversaries? I guess its a way to remember that particular special event which marks the beginning of a new relationship…..an event which kinda affects your life… ..It’s kind of an annual renewal of your commitment to that particular relationship. Relationships are always an important part of life. And I mean all relationships – friendship, love, marriage, relationship by choice, relationship by birth. Marking that milestone each year is one way to strengthen the relationship. It’s a time to celebrate the special bond that grows stronger with time.

So that’s why I am writing this post to celebrate the initiation of a special relationship with special someone.  ….cant believe…it’s been a year since someone entered my world..out of nowhere…and now forms an integral part of my life. It’s a relationship that made its presence felt as friendship. It was a friendship – great from the start..and with time it acquired depth and strength…and now it seems to be one of the best relationship, and I think that relationship that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. The relationship was different and it didn’t begin with true love or any kind of attraction…as we were far apart…having never met each other….And in fact, this distance was a blessing in disguise, allowing us to come to know each other in many ways that close proximity could stifle. Distance, combined with telephone calls and writing, electronically all the time, has fostered an enviable intimacy which resulted from learning about another’s qualities, values, ways of thinking, sensitivities, dreams, and aspirations. This type of intimacy has made our coming together much more special. It has grown slowly and developed over the year. I know long-distance relationship can be tough and difficult at times but we both nurture it and savor it. And we have realised that there are moments when lovers need to be apart, in order to love better and more completely.

In all this, one thing I have realised is that the most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It just happens!!! I believe the best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. That is the kind of relationship which I am celebrating today!! It has been a wonderful one year journey..and I hope this journey to continue for a lifetime. So this one is to you dear..for you have filled my life with so much love and happiness and I feel so lucky to have you in my life.

Girls..are you Listening???

Well someone sent me this poem as to wot guys expect of their wife…hmmmm….just look what expectations guys have from us..what do they think we are?? Anyway ..I found it very funny……so here it is….

Aisi apni Wife ho

5’5″ jiski height ho,

Jeans jiski tight ho,

Chehara jiska bright ho,

Weight mein thodi light Ho,

Umar me difference slight ho,

Thodi see wo quiet ho,

Aise apni Wife ho….

Sadak per sab kahe kya cute ho,

Bhid me sab kahe side ho, side ho..

India ki paidaish ho,

Saas ki seva jiski khwahish ho

Aisi apni Wife ho…

Padosi jab baat kare to haath me knife ho,

Dinner candle light ho,

Dono me na kabhi fight ho,

Milne ke baad dil delight ho,

Hey prabhu teri archana uski life ho.

Yeh kavita padke sab kahe “Guru, tum right ho”,

Aisi apni Wife ho…

Agar aisi apni wife hoto kya haseen life ho

Har kisi ki yahi farmaish ho

Qudrat ki bhi aazmaish ho

Khudah ke software mein bhi bug ki na gunjaish ho

Ay kaash, kahin to ek aisi paidaish ho

Aisi apni wife ho, aisi apni wife ho

Science has Solutions to All!!!

There is this very cute romantic song about falling in love…in this movie “Kaho Na Pyar Hai” and the song is “Na Tum Jano Na Hum” and had always loved it. However recently I came across some explanations given to Hrithik to all the questions he asks in the song!!!

First watch the video…cos the song is really cute….!!

Kyun chalti hain pawan,
Because of evaporation .

Kyun jhoome hain gagan,
Because of earth’s rotation.

Kyun machalta hain mann,
Because of disorder in digestion.

Na Tum Jano Na Hum!!!

Kyun gum hain har disha,
Because u have poor sense of direction.

Kyun hota hain nasha,
Because of drug addiction.

Kyun aata hain mazaa,
Because u enjoy the situation.

Na Tum Jano Na Hum!!!

Kyun aati hain bahar,
Because of change in season.

Kyun lut tha hain karar,
Because of taking tension.

Kyun hota hain pyaar,
Because of opposite attraction.

Na Tum Jano Na Hum!!!

Who said that…!

SCIENCE HAS ALL THE SOLUTIONS.

International Women’s Day

Happy Women’s Day

On the occasion of Women’s day allow me to enlighten you all with some gyan on the inception of this day!

International Women’s Day (8 March) is an occasion marked by women’s groups around the world.

The idea of an International Women’s Day first arose at the turn of the century, which in the industrialized world was a period of expansion and turbulence, booming population growth and radical ideologies. Following is a brief chronology of the most important events:

1909

In accordance with a declaration by the Socialist Party of America, the first National Woman’s Day was observed across the United States on 28 February. Women continued to celebrate it on the last Sunday of that month through 1913.

1910

The Socialist International, meeting in Copenhagen, established a Women’s Day, international in character, to honour the movement for women’s rights and to assist in achieving universal suffrage for women. The proposal was greeted with unanimous approval by the conference of over 100 women from 17 countries, which included the first three women elected to the Finnish parliament. No fixed date was selected for the observance.

1911

As a result of the decision taken at Copenhagen the previous year, International Women’s Day was marked for the first time (19 March) in Austria, Denmark, Germany and Switzerland, where more than one million women and men attended rallies. In addition to the right to vote and to hold public office, they demanded the right to work, to vocational training and to an end to discrimination on the job.

Less than a week later, on 25 March, the tragic Triangle Fire in New York City took the lives of more than 140 working girls, most of them Italian and Jewish immigrants. This event had a significant impact on labour legislation in the United States, and the working conditions leading up to the disaster were invoked during subsequent observances of International Women’s Day.

1913-1914

As part of the peace movement brewing on the eve of World War I, Russian women observed their first International Women’s Day on the last Sunday in February 1913. Elsewhere in Europe, on or around 8 March of the following year, women held rallies either to protest the war or to express solidarity with their sisters.

1917

With 2 million Russian soldiers dead in the war, Russian women again chose the last Sunday in February to strike for “bread and peace”. Political leaders opposed the timing of the strike, but the women went on anyway. The rest is history: Four days later the Czar was forced to abdicate and the provisional Government granted women the right to vote. That historic Sunday fell on 23 February on the Julian calendar then in use in Russia, but on 8 March on the Gregorian calendar in use elsewhere.

Increasingly, International Women’s Day is a time to reflect on progress made, to call for change and to celebrate acts of courage and determination by ordinary women who have played an extraordinary role in the history of women’s rights.

In the early days if its observance, International Women’s Day was celebrated as a socialist holiday honoring working women With the resurgence of feminism in the late 1960s came a renewed interest in International Women’s Day. Feminists found it ready-made holiday for the celebration of women lives and work and began promoting March 8 as such. These efforts resulted in revitalized holiday in countries where it had been traditionally celebrated and inspired new interest in a number of countries where the holiday had previously not been observed.