Our First Milestone

Ever wonder why people celebrate birthdays or anniversaries? I guess its a way to remember that particular special event which marks the beginning of a new relationship…..an event which kinda affects your life… ..It’s kind of an annual renewal of your commitment to that particular relationship. Relationships are always an important part of life. And I mean all relationships – friendship, love, marriage, relationship by choice, relationship by birth. Marking that milestone each year is one way to strengthen the relationship. It’s a time to celebrate the special bond that grows stronger with time.

So that’s why I am writing this post to celebrate the initiation of a special relationship with special someone.  ….cant believe…it’s been a year since someone entered my world..out of nowhere…and now forms an integral part of my life. It’s a relationship that made its presence felt as friendship. It was a friendship – great from the start..and with time it acquired depth and strength…and now it seems to be one of the best relationship, and I think that relationship that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. The relationship was different and it didn’t begin with true love or any kind of attraction…as we were far apart…having never met each other….And in fact, this distance was a blessing in disguise, allowing us to come to know each other in many ways that close proximity could stifle. Distance, combined with telephone calls and writing, electronically all the time, has fostered an enviable intimacy which resulted from learning about another’s qualities, values, ways of thinking, sensitivities, dreams, and aspirations. This type of intimacy has made our coming together much more special. It has grown slowly and developed over the year. I know long-distance relationship can be tough and difficult at times but we both nurture it and savor it. And we have realised that there are moments when lovers need to be apart, in order to love better and more completely.

In all this, one thing I have realised is that the most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It just happens!!! I believe the best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. That is the kind of relationship which I am celebrating today!! It has been a wonderful one year journey..and I hope this journey to continue for a lifetime. So this one is to you dear..for you have filled my life with so much love and happiness and I feel so lucky to have you in my life.

2 thoughts on “Our First Milestone

  1. hey… so it all happened a day b4 1st April… hmmm 😛
    jokes apart… its good to kno u as a friend… n even more as a person. wish u all the very best forever!

  2. brilliant!

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