Love is Meant to be Free

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.
Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: “You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love.”

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love…they try to posses it, they demand, they expect… and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don’t expect.
Advise, but don’t order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring.

– Swami Vivekananda

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India’s First Solo Olympic Gold Medal

Abhinav Bindra made us Indians proud today by winning India’s first ever individual Olympic gold medal  in the men’s 10m air rifle.

Bindra who had been fourth after qualifying perforned brilliant in the final round and hit a near perfect 10.8 on his last shot to claim the gold! The silver went to China’s Zhu Qinan, the defending Olympic champion and heavy favorite. Henri Hakkinen of Finland dropped to bronze with a poor final shot of 9.7.

“It’s just great,” Bindra told Reuters just before climbing on to the podium.

11th August 2008 will surely go down in history as a great day for Indian atheletes.

Thank you Abhinav, we are really proud of you!