If you love someone tell them!


Being an introvert I had always kept my feelings and emotions to myself. Very closed kind of person. Never had a bestfriend in life ..well in other words me myself was my best friend. However,life has its own ways…. I was destined to meet someone with whom I could share all my secrets, good experiences as well as bad ones, things important and trivial. Someone who takes time to listen and truly listens when I have something to say. And in course of time don’t know when fell in love cos it doesn’t take a reason to love someone. You don’t love someone because you want to, you love someone because you are destined to. It’s because you fall in Love with them, that you then try to find a reason, but you always come up with the answer, No Reason!

Initially was very apprehensive as to how tell him. What if he says no, what if after that I lose that I already had with that person. That day when I couldnt take it anymore..I finally made my feelings known to him…and the response being in the negative landed with hurt and pain.

But then with time…which will be 4 days..to be precise someone felt that whatever I had confessed was not a one-sided affair …rather…the feelings were reciprocal. And the moment he realised that, he too did not lose time to express his feelings. So the lesson I learnt is that if you love someone tell them you do. If you do, they might break your heart..but if you dont you might break theirs. Do not deny your feelings for someone because of the fear of rejection would be too hard to handle.

Holding HandsOnce in a lifetime you find a person who touches not your heart but also your soul. And once in a lifetime if you are lucky you find someone as I have found my love. I never felt a love like this before. It’s a love like ….. no other…something I have always hoped for. A love with friendship, humour and heart. It’s a bond so strong and I just hope it never parts!!

Love is like magic and it always will be.
For love still remains life’s sweet mystery!!

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38 thoughts on “If you love someone tell them!

  1. I agree with u…if one loves someone…shud confess it. And if the answer is no….dont let it effect your existing BASIC relation…n if it does effect on the down side, bcoz ur friend reacts awkwardly….well he/she wasnt even a friend at all! Love brings the best out of a person…makes a good human. Thats why people should be in n with love always. I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love.

    May your love be like a violin…. the music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever. May Allah bless u! :)

  2. ….u know the relation that we chose to make, is mostly in our hands…requires a combine honest n continuous effort all the time. So, just be understanding, n make a good n beautiful one! :)

  3. @ Navedz
    Thanx a lot for all your blessings..and well-wishes…yes I want to thank you and you have to accept it..dont say that u carry thanx in your purse….just pray that its a success, no matter what we remain together!! :D

  4. ok…since u insist so much…i accept this one out of ur purse….but last time eh! ;)
    Jokes apart….dont worry….my prayers r always there…may Allah help u both with watever is good n best for u both! Ameen!

  5. Hey! visited ur blog after a long time and was pleasantly surprised with this post. Am happy for you :). Wishing you the very best.
    -T.

  6. @ Tharangz

    hey thanx buddy..definitely need these best wishes!!

  7. love is like magic, it only speak from the heart but never explain. if u love someone tell the person u love him or her don’t hide your feeling cos serete kills.

  8. WE need to tell them, but if a person himself is not sure, whether they are in love, sometimes they feel and sometimes not. And I think there are more number og untold love, than expressed. The fear of losing the person, is stopping everyone from expressing themselves.

  9. BOI WELL I LOVE DIS BOI CALED KLASH BT HE DONT NO I’V HAD FEELINGS FOR , FOR 2 YEARS NOW N A KNEW AT ONE POINT HE FELT THE SAME WAY BUT I DONT NOW HOW TO TELL HIM I KNOW ITS LOVE WORDS CANT EXPRESS THE WAY I FEEL

  10. WOW.. well LIVE WITH ARMZ WIDE OPEN…

    itz betta 2 open n get broken then be cold n lonely

  11. Its nice it worked out.. I have known this guy for around a year, and was from the beging attracted to him. In the last few months, I have fallen in love with him. We had started to become friends. I want so badly to tell him how I feel, but we work together.. I keep wondering though if by not telling him, I am losing someone special.. I just need to say it. I dont know how..

  12. i love someone whose name is debarshi! he don’t know me or my love,ok! i love him more than my life! most of my friends know it . he don’t love me. he loves one of my friend and i don’t want to upset her! what should i do? i think i should not confess to him. is it correct?

    i knowi’m in class 7 which too early to love .he is in 8.

  13. hey guess wat same is d problem wid me
    i have a net frnd . we met on an educational site n then we became gr8 frnz i can share ne n everythng wid him
    slowly i realizd that perhaps i love him ………….frm dat day till now ive never been able to pour out my feelings to him.reason being d fear of losing him………………i am afraid dat wat if i lose smone whos so so so very important to me………..i hope some day i am able to tell him
    plz pray for me

  14. I agree but a few days later this person might start hating you if i could give advice this is what it’d be dont trust no one and never love anyone they end up hurting you! i been thru it.

  15. hmmm yup thts feeling :)
    Love is broad; if you love someone, you love all things,
    not just their beauty.
    Love is narrow; you love one and only one, compared
    to them, no one matters.

  16. that’s nice.. i agree that if you don’t tell you might be breaking their hearts. but really.. the feeling of rejection is hard to swallow.. esp for us introverts…

  17. Ive heard all of ur comments, bt, before u make any decision a,bou t the one u love, wy dont u pray and talk to God about it? Believe me, u will get answers.

  18. If you ain hav the guts to tel it on face, the best way is to xpress thru actions. No matter wat, the other person wil sureli get more than a hint abt it and its their actions which will tell u to carry on to tell or give it a break and better luk next time..blev me this is wat i did..love is truly beautiful.[;)]
    kudos 2 all in love,just let the feelin sink in the rest will take care of itself..

  19. yeah……..one have to express…..c me..

    I met her of Facebook…..as frnd…..went on for scarping eachother…..became gud frnds…
    v loved to be together…always having lenghty chats….and as the days passed….when i went home on vacation….i Proposed her…..and to my good luck, she accepted…..n its fine now….
    we had dates….exchange of feelings…..hmmm

    hope vl get married soon by next year!!!!!

  20. @ ifty
    that’s great to know that you got your love… n hope you too remain together forever.

  21. your testimony is moving…
    but when that love belongs to “dream world” how do you do?!
    I found a solution : writing a blog! and perhaps he/she will know…it’s frustrating to keep feelings inside…to share is better I think…I wish everybody to be happy in love! Love is so beautiful to give and receive!

    Farghana I will put a link of your blog on mine (http://royalphoenix.wordpress.com/)

    have a good day!

  22. hi i tried 2 tell some1 that i have his feelings but he couldnt agry we date i got heart broken but just kept in communicating with till today we are very good friends

  23. This is all book talk. What people feel towards each other is merely lust or a simple crush. Most young people(especially) don’t even know what love is. Its all glamorized by the media and the movie industry to make you feel you love someone and that your love will last forever. Remember, this all is a money making business(you “love” someone, you bring them gifts and what not) While in reality, you really just like their face, how they smile and a bit of their personality. While this may not apply to everyone, it does to the majority.

    Remember, love is often an illusion. A red blossoming rose looks beautiful till you hold its twig. At that moment, the beauty of the rose doesn’t save you from the pain. Only your instinct and impulsive judgement to take away your hand as soon possible DOES.

    Think a million times and then 2 more times AND THEN come to the conclusion that you love a person. Its not as simple as it seems.

  24. really you have just given me the go ahead to express how i feel about somebody because i have been dying in silence i will do this and get back to you

  25. @ jack gloria k

    All the best! :)

  26. May God keep U together for each other forever…….!!!!!!!!!

  27. i really luv sumone.. but i dont think that he loves me or smth like dat..
    dunno how to express and how to confess it!! help me out ppl!!

  28. i also like sumone, i express my feelings to him. but he says he dont believe in love.i thought he loves me but he dnt want to gave answer with sum specfic reason might be i think.but i really i love him alot, he is the one for me. i dnt knw wht i do.we communicate each othr as agud frnds,bt he dnt express his feelings in front of me……..

  29. Your article helped me to understand why I am in love with my special person and gave me insight on how to approach this feeling. Thank you

  30. I love someone fake!

  31. Ones reason for loving another is a mistery? So when does one truely fall in love? And what is the reasone for all of the other crushes in life? True love sounds great, i just havent found it i guess.

  32. ok maybe love make u weak person so u cant tell ur feelings!!!but u live once and u better take ur chance so my advice is to gather ur strength and say all what u want and have to say coz being silence and locking in all your feelings hurts more coz u dont know whut if other person have the same feelings to me!!!!!!!!
    but say whut u want to say when feel its the right moment and pick ur words carefuly!!!!!!!!!!!!!TRUST ME ;)

  33. huh.. i like this someone but.. idk, i think he likes me back but im not sure, i was going to tell him today but he didnt show-up.. im that confuse.. i dont believe love at first sight.. and we are in different religion so it makes it more harder to tell!! im just wondering what signs that a person might like you.. just to know if that person loves you back.. im that confuse on how to tell him. when i should do it? how should i do it? .. he is giving me a big question mark..

  34. Is it good to hide your love or feeling for someone?if yes, why? if no, why not, 15 lines plz.

  35. good day everyone! i would just like to express what i feel and would appreciate if you could give me some advice.

    i have a guy bestfriend for almost 3 years and it all ended up when i resigned in my job. we really were good friends since the day he joined our office. we really had fun together, sharing secrets and everything. we were always together and enjoyed each other’s company. but the thing is, i fell in-love with him and i know too he feels the same way because i can see it thru his actions. the sad part is, we both too have a relationship with someone. but i admit i love my bestfriend more than i love my boyfriend. unfortunatley, i wasnt able to tell it to my bestfriend how much i love him. that friendship now is gone, and all i wanted now even if we couldn’t be each other as lovers, i hope the friendship will still remain. i really love him so much that i am willing to give-up the feelings i have with my boyfriend now just for him. i really don’t have the guts to tell what i feel for him because i am afraid that i might ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. i just cried whenever i think of him. he makes me happier! :(

  36. sienna :
    good day everyone! i would just like to express what i feel and would appreciate if you could give me some advice.
    i have a guy bestfriend for almost 3 years and it all ended up when i resigned in my job. we really were good friends since the day he joined our office. we really had fun together, sharing secrets and everything. we were always together and enjoyed each other’s company. but the thing is, i fell in-love with him and i know too he feels the same way because i can see it thru his actions. the sad part is, we both too have a relationship with someone. but i admit i love my bestfriend more than i love my boyfriend. unfortunatley, i wasnt able to tell it to my bestfriend how much i love him. that friendship now is gone, and all i wanted now even if we couldn’t be each other as lovers, i hope the friendship will still remain. i really love him so much that i am willing to give-up the feelings i have with my boyfriend now just for him. i really don’t have the guts to tell what i feel for him because i am afraid that i might ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. i just cried whenever i think of him. he makes me happier!

  37. i have a gal i love, she loves me back. thea is anatha one i am in th same class with, im falling for her too, i dnt want to cause any heart breaks watsoeva, wat do i do?

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